First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. The fact that you're even considering ordering this pendant as a way to keep your loved one close on your special day is truly an honor.
I lost my sister a few months before getting engaged myself. One of the first things I ordered was an ash pendant memorial necklace, which has brought me so much joy.
As a wedding photographer, I've seen many brides with bouquet photo pendants, but never felt like that was for me.
In order to make your bouquet charm, I'll ask that you send me 2 tablespoons of cremation ash. I promise to treat your loved one's remains like I'd want my own treated. Any unused ash will be returned to you.
You can tie the pendant close to your blooms or let it hang on a longer string or chain, which is my preferred method.
The bouquet charm is the larger of the two pictured.
to live a life,
so rich of love,
that at the end,
I will not be,
so shy of death"
CREMATION ASH MEMORIAL BOUQUET CHARM